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Christmas Gifts for Newborn

My SIL is pregnant with her first and due any day now.  I have no idea what to buy for baby for Christmas.  They went a little crazy buying baby stuff and everything I can think of they already have.  They have tons of clothes, diapers, toys, etc... I think they were worried about having things that they needed for baby (BIL is currently unemployed so they've been stocking up when things were cheap) and forgot to consider that Christmas is coming.  They're notoriously bad for buying things for themselves during the month before Christmas and then no one knows what to buy for them.  Last year I was so excited because I had the perfect gift - I remembered my SIL had mentioned wanting a crockpot.  Well don't you know she went out on Black Friday and bought herself one!  Obviously the baby doesn't know one way or another, but since they'll be getting something for my son I'd like to reciprocate.

So... Any creative or unusual ideas for something for a 4 wk. old baby?  Bonus points if it's useful!

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so_there
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:23 pm (UTC)
are they using disposable diapers? a few packs in the next size up would be useful!
so_there
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:24 pm (UTC)
sorry, not creative or unusual. :P
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sillyd
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:35 pm (UTC)
I was going to say diapers also or you could just get a giftcard to Target or Babies R Us. They might not need something right this second but if the dad is unemployed it might be something nice to have for a later time.
makale_83
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:35 pm (UTC)
Being annoyed that they are prepared parents, is just...... IDK.. rude I guess? Why be mad that they want to make sure their baby is prepared for?? In any case, diapers are always useful. As is diaper cream (Butt Paste is awesome), baby shampoo (sensitive skin), baby detergent (sensitive skin), receiving blankets, baby socks, crib sheets - can never have enough, baby hats, if it gets cold where you are, something to keep the baby warm when it's cold out. (Trust me, you can never have enough "snow suit" things for instance.. babies have diaper blow outs constantly, and you need them in more than one size if it stays cold for longer periods.) That's all I can think of right now!
yazz_flute
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:53 pm (UTC)
Where did I say that I was annoyed or mad about it? I'm just at a loss as to what to buy them since they really did go crazy with the shopping. They have piles of diapers (in multiple sizes), bath products, and clothing of all sizes.
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maggiedacatt
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:41 pm (UTC)
Do you have kids? If so, try to think back to stuff you didn't KNOW you would need.

- If they don't already have it, Happiest Baby on the Block (book or video)

- Binkies

- Swaddling blankets (Kiddopotomus or similar) - Multiple sizes

- A white-noise machine

- If you live somewhere cold, warm footie jammies, coats, etc.

- If they're bottle feeding (whether formula or pumped milk): extra bottles, bottle sterilization gear, etc. If pumping milk, milk containers/bags that fit their pump. (Good electric pumps are very expensive, btw... that could be a good "big" gift if they need one and don't have one already.)

- Bibs


With clothes, diapers, and other things that the kid will outgrow, a range of sizes is awesome. I had 8,000 NB things, but SOME of my fam/friends were smart enough to get older sizes, so I had a nice tub of things that I would break out every time my girl outgrew her current size. Getting a bunch of 9-month and 12-month stuff might feel a little weird now, but believe me, they'll appreciate it a lot 9 months from now, when people are not crawling out of the woodwork to buy them stuff!
so_there
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:46 pm (UTC)
bigger sizes is a good idea, and as you usually need the opposite season, you can get them on clearance! I got some adorable summer stuff for a shower I recently went to, sized 9 months. I have to say, when I had my first, I was fully stocked in 0-3 month stuff and 3-6 month, but once she outgrew the 6 months, she had nothing!
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sfuntik
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:46 pm (UTC)
Diapers or gift cards
Those are always useful!!!
krysty
Nov. 21st, 2012 09:52 pm (UTC)
If they don't have a Sophie the giraffe yet I'd go with that. They're pretty awesome, but spendy little buggers.
yazz_flute
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:29 pm (UTC)
I'd never heard of that. It's a teether, right? What makes it so awesome?
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rebl1969
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:06 pm (UTC)
Two movie passes, a gift certificate to a favorite restaurant (doesn't have to be fancy) and an offer to babysit for the evening (or an afternoon if they'd rather see a matinee and be home early).
yazz_flute
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:41 pm (UTC)
I like this idea a lot too! Thanks!
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sblmnldrknss
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:11 pm (UTC)
Books are always good.
hungry_worm
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:13 pm (UTC)
If you live nearby, I would give them a handmade voucher for XY (i.e. five) days coupletime, where you will babysit and they can have a day off. At that age, the baby doesn't need anything, but the parents do (especially when you say that they already went all out and bought a lot of babystuff. You could also give them a voucher for cooking them lunch/dinner or a complete housecleaning, or a professional photography session with their newborn, or something like that. (Btw., I didn't think you came across as annoyed at all.)

Edited at 2012-11-21 10:14 pm (UTC)
yazz_flute
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:40 pm (UTC)
PHOTOGRAPHY SESSION! Why didn't I think of that! They actually got us one the first Christmas after my son was born (he's an October baby so he was about 12 wks.)

Thanks! (I'm glad not everyone thinks I'm annoyed. Especially since I'm not!)
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designingdreams
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:17 pm (UTC)
If if they have everything they need, what about something thy might like? We always appreciated a variety of books. I love when relatives/friends write little messages in books for our daughter.
mrsmdub
Nov. 21st, 2012 10:27 pm (UTC)
You could get something personalized at personalcreations.com
My babies got things from there when they were new
blue_stealth
Nov. 21st, 2012 11:08 pm (UTC)
Cute homemade crocheted or knitted kid hat. :)
yazz_flute
Nov. 22nd, 2012 12:01 am (UTC)
You overestimate my craftiness! Lol! My mom is AWESOME at crocheting. Me... not so much. I can make scarves, but I don't think a newborn would have much need for that. :)
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keelybird
Nov. 21st, 2012 11:47 pm (UTC)
Oh my god how dare you be annoyed with them!!! haha, what was that commenter thinking?!

We went all out on things too so it was hard for people to buy things for us! Things Id suggest would be:
-gift cards for babiesRus or where ever they buy baby stuff (I cant tell you how many times I wish I had some babiesRus giftcards!)
-did they get the baby a playgym yet? or maybe get them an activity center for when baby is a bit older
-a pillow pet? we use ours for tummy time and when she lies down on the floor so its soft for her head http://www.mypillowpets.ca/
-you can never have too many pacifiers/teethers/dangly toys and books!
-also, we got some cute knitted booties that I love and wish I had more pairs of!
-clothes in sizes up, our little girl is nearly 5 months at christmas (and abit on the short side) so weve asked for onesies/outfits/pants etc in sizes 6-9 and 9-12
-another idea would be to make a "baby box" and fill it with useful things like rattles, bibs, wipes, diapers (you can never have too many, buy size 3's), diaper cream etc

good luck finding a gift!
yazz_flute
Nov. 22nd, 2012 12:03 am (UTC)
I'm glad no one else seems to think I'm annoyed. I kept re-reading what I wrote trying to figure out where I sounded annoyed. Lol!

A play gym was my original idea. My sister has a 5 wk old baby and that's what we're getting for him. Would you believe my SIL already has not one, but TWO playgyms? Lol!
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babytalking
Nov. 22nd, 2012 12:16 am (UTC)
Do they have a wipe warmer? It sounds kind of silly and indulgent, but it seems like it's really useful for some babies, to keep them calmer and more comfy during diaper changes.
hungry_worm
Nov. 22nd, 2012 12:57 am (UTC)
[OT] Huh, I didn't know these existed! I always used oil wipes in winter, because they weren't as cool (but unfortunately I found them suboptimal for poo, so we used warm washcloths in combination with them).
jadeejf
Nov. 22nd, 2012 02:13 am (UTC)
I think it was the "they buy stuff for themselves-crockpot story" that sounded like you were a little annoyed. It is annoying when people are hard to buy for, though!

Annnnnyway, my suggestion would be books - The Night You Were Born is a good one for a newborn, but my kids' favorites are (in no particular order):

I Am A Bunny
Time for Bed
Where the WIld Things Are
Going on a Bear Hunt
Brown Bear, Brown Bear
There's a Wocket in my Pocket
Blueberry Girl
The Jesus Storybook Bible - this one is only good if the parents are Christians - and I would read through Blueberry Girl before you decide to purchase, too- I inadvertantly offended a Christian friend with that one. You never can win! :)

Alternately, there are some awesome kids' CDs out there. I particularly like Elizabeth Mitchell, but hey, Johnny Cash put out a children's album! It's really good :)
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