I know it's a long shot, but any suggestions on gift ideas for a 14 year old, autistic girl? My SIL's birthday is tomorrow and my husband and I are at a total loss. I feel like buying an actual gift for any 14 year old girl is hard, then you add in the fact that she's (severely) autistic and it gets even harder.
She loves swimming and the water, but has a pool, sprinkler/outdoor water toys, doesn't care for rafts/noodles/googles and has swim suits and towels galore.
She likes music but has headphone and her own cd player/cds.
She likes getting her nails painted but we have bought her nail polish on many birthdays.
She also likes to bounce (has a trampoline and exercise ball).
Otherwise, she's a teenage girl.
I'm seriously lost. Help?
ETA: Gift cards (other than maybe some "experience" ones) are out because she is not able to communicate what she wants nor does she really have any idea of what's out there. She has the personality of a 14 year old girl (as in attitude and sassiness) but the ability of a nonverbal/not potty trained 3 or 4 year old (based only on my observations). This is what makes it so hard!